The most successful business professionals know and understand that by developing meaningful relationships with people in their network they will realize growth in their business that comes from word-of-mouth, an endless source of referrals and clients/customers that are loyal for life. Here are 5 essentials of Relationship Marketing:
1. Make Sure That Everyone In Your Network Feels Appreciated & Valued: “Appreciation Wins Over Self-Promotion Every Time”.
a. Treat Others How They Want To Be Treated, Not How You Want To Be Treated (this is referred to as the Golden “Golden” Rule!
b. Authentically Make Others Feel Like A VIP or MVP.
c. Go Above & Beyond In Customer Service – Always Strive to Add Value
2. Pay Attention To Details & Always Remember Important Dates
a. Remember to acknowledge Birthdays, Holidays, Anniversaries, etc.
b. Acknowledge Events Going On In Someone’s Business, Personal or Family Life
c. Get to Know Client’s Likes/Dislikes, Hobbies, Talents, Goals & Dreams, etc
d. Be Aware of Client’s Strengths & Weakness, Struggles & Challenges, Success & Setbacks, etc.
3. Grow a Huge Rolodex. Make and Add New Contacts Daily
a. A.B.C’s of Business = Always Be Connecting with People
b. Surround Yourself With Other Successful People Who Have Large Influential Circles of Influence
c. Find Creative Ways To Share Circles of Influence by collaborating or joint venturing with other business professionals, networking groups, lead exchange groups, social media networking
d. Develop a Power Team – a small group of referral partners with whom you can all share the same clients which results in a constant flow of referrals. Power Team example: Realtor, Home Inspector, Mortgage Specialist, & Property Manager or Chiropractor, Massage Therapist, & Fitness Trainer.
4. Be In Regular Communication With Your Clients/Customers & Potential Clients/Customers
a. Have a system for staying in touch and following up with people which includes a combination of the following touch points: telephone call, email, greeting card/postcard & in person (if and when appropriate). Determine your ideal touch point frequency – monthly, every other month, or quarterly.
b. Send out 5 to 10 personalized greeting cards each day – Nice to meet you, thank you, customer appreciation, thinking of you, birthdays, holidays, etc. Follow the leaders: Harvey MacKay, Joe Girard, Tom Hopkins (multi-millionaires who built their businesses with Relationship Marketing). The best system for efficiently sending personalized greeting cards via postal mail is SendOutCards, for more info visit www.soclink.com/mbs or www.sendoutcards.com/mbs.
5. Commit To Daily Personal Growth & Leadership By Example
a. Spend Time Daily Working On Yourself By Reading Great Books, Listening to Audio Programs, & Attend Seminars Regularly. As you grow personally and professionally you will become outrageously attractive to all of the right people. Clients/customers will seek you out.
b. Seek Wisdom by always learning & expanding knowledge in your area of specialty, sales & marketing, leadership, human relations, psychology, personality types, Etc. Utilize mentors and coaches.
c. Lead By Example & Be A Person of Integrity. Never ask someone to do something you yourself haven't done or are not willing to do. Keep your word and always follow through.
I recommend you complete the following statement, write it on an index card and place it next to your computer where you will see it often. " In order to enhance the “WOW” Experience I provide to others, today and for the next 30 days one relationship building action I am committing to is ….."
Begin today to be the best Relationship Marketer you know and you'll never want for business again, regardless of what the economy is doing.
To your success,
Melissa Guthrie
Melissa Guthrie is the founder and President of MBS Development Group. She has been a success coach and business development advisor to entrepreneurs, business owners, sales professionals and network marketers since 2002, and has a specialization in Personal Contact Marketing/Relationship Marketing.